Is It Autism or Social Anxiety? How to Spot The Difference

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November 17, 2024

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Sometimes, autism and anxiety can look similar on the surface, but they have different causes and need unique types of support. Find out what sets them apart and what kind of learning environment best suits your child’s needs.

Social interaction is a vital part of every child’s development. Engaging with peers and teachers at school allows children to build skills – like communication, empathy, and teamwork – that will help them grow into happier and healthier adults.  

When kids have trouble with these interactions, it can affect their school experience and slow their emotional development, possibly impacting their confidence and relationships later in life. 

If your child finds it difficult to socialize, express themselves, or form connections with peers and teachers, figuring out what’s causing these challenges can be tricky. 

Autism and anxiety are two very different conditions, yet both can significantly affect your child’s social development and interactions with others.

Because they share some overlapping symptoms, it can be difficult for parents to know which one their child may be experiencing and what kind of help they need. While these conditions may look alike on the outside, they have unique causes and require different types of support. 

In this blog, we’ll explore the differences between autism and anxiety, how to recognize the signs of each, and how different learning environments can majorly improve the symptoms of both conditions.  

We’ll also cover the benefits of 504 accommodations within the classroom, and therapeutic schools for anxiety and autism, like EA Schools in Ohio, to help you find the best place for your child to learn and grow.

Autism and anxiety explained  

Autism, or autism spectrum disorder (ASD), is a developmental condition of the brain that impacts how a person understands and interacts with the world around them. 

It affects how the brain develops, especially in areas related to social interaction, communication, and behavior. So, it is more challenging for children with ASD to connect with others, socialize, and pick up on social cues like facial expressions or tone of voice. 

However, it is important to remember that ASD looks different for everyone. That’s why we call it a “spectrum.” No two individuals with autism are the same; each has their own set of strengths and challenges. 

Anxiety, on the other hand, is a mental health condition that causes children to feel nervous, restless, or have trouble concentrating, even when there is no clear reason for their worry. 

The specific type of anxiety that could be confused with autism is social anxiety

What is social anxiety? 

Social anxiety is a mental health condition that can make children feel extremely nervous or afraid of social situations, like speaking up in class or meeting new people. 

They may worry a lot about making mistakes and being judged by their peers and teachers, causing them to avoid social interactions altogether. 

Both autism and social anxiety can make it difficult for kids to feel comfortable enough to reach their full potential in the classroom. 

In the sections below, we will explore the key differences between autism and anxiety, along with practical ways you can support your child based on which condition they have.

Is your child experiencing autism or social anxiety?

Autism and social anxiety are both related to challenges with social interaction, but the most significant difference between the two lies in what causes these difficulties. 

Children with autism struggle to process social cues, communication, and behaviors. 

On the other hand, children with social anxiety fully understand social cues but experience intense feelings of nervousness or fear in social situations. 

Children with autism may struggle with social anxiety. However, social anxiety on its own does not indicate that a child has autism. 

So, while the two overlap, they are distinct conditions.  

In addition to struggling with social interaction, children with autism may: 

  • Engage in repetitive behaviors 
  • Be extra sensitive to sensory stimuli, like bright lights, loud noises, or scratchy clothes 
  • Have highly focused interests in certain hobbies or topics to the point that they show little interest in other things 

Children with social anxiety may experience the following: 

  • Extreme self-consciousness and constant worry about saying or doing something embarrassing 
  • Avoidant behaviors 
  • Physical symptoms like sweating, blushing, or trembling in social situations 

An autism evaluation typically involves screenings, tests, and observations from specialists, including pediatricians, psychologists, speech therapists, etc. These evaluations examine the child’s social behaviors, communication, and repetitive patterns. 

In contrast, assessing a child for social anxiety usually involves talking to a mental health professional who will ask about their fears, worries, and behaviors in social situations to fully understand their levels of anxiety. 

Now that we understand the critical differences between autism and social anxiety, let’s dive deeper into how you can support your child based on their specific needs, starting with autism. 

Is an autism school right for your child? 

In general, children with autism benefit from a learning environment that offers: 

  • Specialized learning strategies 
  • A strong focus on social/emotional support   
  • Individual attention from teachers and staff 

Children with autism can attend a traditional school, but these environments may not offer the extra support your child needs to thrive. Even with an IEP (Individual Education Plan), traditional schools’ resources and accommodations are limited, making it harder for neurodiverse students to learn effectively and feel comfortable. 

If your child isn’t getting the support they deserve in their current school, it may be time to consider a specialized autism school

At EA Schools in Ohio, we created our Coral Autism Program to meet the unique needs of our students on the autism spectrum. 

We provide a nurturing environment with features like sensory rooms to help students manage their emotions and highly trained staff who focus on developing social and communication skills. 

Our goal is to create a supportive space where children can grow academically and build confidence in school and other social settings. 

Students with social anxiety can also benefit from many of these extra supports, but they often require accommodations in the classroom or a more therapeutic approach to their education. 

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504 accommodations for anxiety 

If social anxiety is making it difficult for your child to focus in class or connect with peers and teachers, 504 accommodations are the most common support offered in traditional schools. 

Requesting one can be a crucial first step in making sure your child receives the accommodations they need to feel more comfortable and succeed in their school environment.

Unlike IEPs, 504 plans are not part of special education. However, they aim to help students with all kinds of different needs and challenges by providing accommodations so they can learn in a way that works for them. 

Some common 504 accommodations for social anxiety include: 

  • Preferential seating where students feel more comfortable, like near the door or next to a supportive peer 
  • Flexible or extended deadlines for completing homework or projects  
  • Assigning a specific support person at school, like a counselor, to check in with students as needed 
  • Providing testing accommodations, like extra break times or additional times to complete tests or quizzes 

While 504 accommodations can help your child feel more comfortable in school, they don’t always address the root causes of social anxiety. For deeper support, therapy – or a therapeutic school for anxiety – may be a better option. 

Why consider a therapeutic school for anxiety? 

A therapeutic school for anxiety offers a supportive environment where children can get the help they need to manage their fears and build confidence. 

At Education Alternatives, we’ve seen how our therapeutic approach has made a real difference in the lives of students with social anxiety. 

This approach includes: 

  • Group therapy sessions through our sister organization, REACH Behavioral Health, where students learn coping mechanisms to manage their anxiety effectively
  • Small class sizes where students receive the personalized attention they need to feel more at ease in school
  • Incorporating the philosophy of unconditional positive regard into every aspect of our school to ensure that students feel valued and respected by every member of our community

Whether your child is facing challenges with autism or social anxiety, Education Alternatives offers programs designed to help them reach their full potential

If you’re an Ohio parent looking for a school where your child can thrive, contact us today! Our team will be happy to answer any questions about how our autism school or our therapeutic approach can help your child’s social anxiety.  
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